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What is it is he trying to say?

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Question - (6 September 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female Malaysia age 30-35, *ottonCandy19 writes:

I am 18 years old. I babysit and tutor arounnd the neighbourhood. There's this one family that I usually babysit. I would usually take care of their five year old daughter and tutor their 15 year old son. After some time, I got to know them better and they suddenly feel like family. They always insist on me staying over for dinner. A month ago, their eldest son came back from Australia. He's 21 years old and he never often comes back home. At first, he acted strange around me. His 5 year old sister wud usually pull him over to colour with us. He looks at me uncomfortably all the time.

One night, when his parents went out and left him in charge, I was finished tutoring their son, I was about to get up and leave after putting the two kids to sleep, but he pulled my wrist and told me he wanted to show me something, so I followed him. Once we were in his bedroom,he sat on the sofa and I sat opposite him. He suddenly just pulls me onto his lap and just started kissing me, I didn't struggle or anything. I just kept kissing him back. When we stopped kissing for a while, I looked into his eyes and saw that unsure expression on his face. What is he trying to say?

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (7 September 2010):

The Realist agony auntAsk him the next time that you two have a min alone so that you don't have to continue wondering for too long. Just say that you have a quick question for him.

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A female reader, CottonCandy19 Malaysia +, writes (6 September 2010):

CottonCandy19 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

You guys are right, I should ask him.... I'll tell you after I ask him.... When shud I ask him?

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A female reader, sarahrose20 Canada +, writes (6 September 2010):

he is into you that much is certain. Maybe it is the age diference or the long distance thing but neither one of those seem to make sense cuz why would he kiss you if that were the case its more likely that he doesnt want his parents to find out he probably thinks that they wouldnt approve of him dating you i would ask him wats up

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (6 September 2010):

The Realist agony auntI think he was trying to say that he likes you but is worried about starting something and then leaving for a long period of time. I would definitely talk to him about that night and see what he wants. I'm also curious about whether you are into him as well?

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A female reader, CottonCandy19 Malaysia +, writes (6 September 2010):

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yes. He is very attractive, but why all of a sudden? when we first met, he didn't even talk to me much. Just more of staring and looking.

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (6 September 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntuhh odd. I am pretty sure he wanted to hook up with you, that would have been the opportune moment to ask him what his deal was.

Sounds like he was attracted to you from the start, but pretty odd that he just pulled you into his room and started making out with you. Do you find him attractive??

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A female reader, jodieleigh Ireland +, writes (6 September 2010):

jodieleigh agony aunthe likes you.. he wouldn't of kissed you if he wasn't interested... just play hard to get..

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (6 September 2010):

mizz.butterflies agony aunthe tries to sleep with you?

he fancies you?

do you like him? how long will he stay?

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