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They're not his condoms!

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Question - (6 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *nconditional_luv writes:

my bf of 2 years recently traveled for about a wk.i was with him for the first 2 days and had to return, while he stayed. when he got back i did laundry and found a washed part of a condom box, that he swore he knew nothing about and that must have dropped into his clothes by one of the other guys that was staying in the same room.then,doing the clothes, i happened to find more of the pack, as well as 2 of the unused condoms.he swears further that they are not his, he knows nothing about them, and one of the guys must have worn his shorts and put them back in his bag.that sounded just hilarious to me,and was the lamest i'd ever heard?!and i wouldnt buy it!someone has conveniently worn his shorts,4got their stuff in it,puts them back, and packing his things to come back, he never notices??..in the past he's packed his stuff, and said he was leaving several times before, only to never actually leave...he swears that i am the one for him, he'd never cheat on me, he's not that type..and all the other jazz.. i honestly don't know what to think, very confused. i want to blv him, but since he has told me so many times, that basically he doesn't need to be in a relationship with me, and that it's nothing for him to leave?, then i figure its nothing for him to cheat, and lie about it, either:(.....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010):

so the condoms are not his:

just like the coke was not Paris Hiltons in the US, NOT Paris Hiltons in SA,and not Paris Hiltons in France (i think)

think about it. liars make you think you are going insane with their convincing words and tales. only your bf knows the truth, and whether he wants to tell you the truth or not, dont feel bad that you questioned him. you have ebery right and yu should get to the bottom of it.

-LoveGirl

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A female reader, demmie United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2010):

me and my first bf have recently split up cos he was cheatin i knew because he always had a girl round his flat and always seemed more interested in her than me and he finaly admited it

dose he spend alot of time with anotner woman?

does he say his workin over time?

is he often going out and not telling u where his going?

also my bf wanted alot less sex while he was cheating

hope this helps x

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