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writes:I made a big mistake yesterday, I made out with a guy I was trying to get over, I realize that he was recording me on his fone then he lied saying he was just texting. He then said to me that his friend wants me too, I said I'm not that type of girl. This guy knows that I'm in love with him. He dropped me back at mine then I called him half an hour later and he told me that he is going to meet up with a girl then he switched off his fone. He's avoiding my calls I don't know if I should just move on or try and get through
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 He doesn't deserve your love because he is disrespectful and very very selfish.
Do not waste your time and precious love on him because he is not going to reciprocate it and judging by his actions,he is trying to send you a message/signal that he doesn't need you in his life.
Start convincing yourself that he wasn't meant to be yours,that you deserve better than that and most important of all,you are a very special lady.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): I think you should definitely try to move on from this guy. He is just using you. After what happened yesterday, your feelings are bound to be confused, and it is understandable that you are trying to get him back again. But by not responding to you, and by saying he is seeing another girl, he is clearly not interested in anything other than making out with you. That is all he wants. And to record you, and say that his friend "wants" you too...that is just creepy and incredibly disrespectful. You can do so much better than this. And more to the point, you deserve more than this.
Please don't let your feelings for him allow him to do what he pleases with you. As hard as it must be, stop contacting him. Okay, so you slipped up yesterday, but we all do sometimes. Just put it behind you, and concentrate on moving on. Even if it hurts and you feel sad and miss him, those feelings do not mean you should go back to him. Those feelings just mean you are human, with a heart. He will only take advantage of that. So try and move on from him, and focus on building your confidence up and being good to yourself.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 " I don't know if I should move on ?"... Excuse me ,but, what else are you waiting for, a public announcement on BBC that's time to move on ?...
The guy is tryng to pass you around his friends, is going with another girl half an hour after he's dropped you at home, and is dodging your calls .Is that not enough ? Would you like some more abuse ?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): In my opinion, you should move on. That guy doesn't seem in love with you and I think he's just using you. If he loves you, he's going to respect you and I don't see that.
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