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Need your help! How do I get him to notice and talk to me?

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Question - (6 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hii!!

Well i am 16 years old and i have just started college :)

anyway i am just like any other teenager even though i do drink and go out into town (clubbing) but thats just who i am! My mum doesnt let me do any of this but i do it all the time and i always make sure i am safe.

I am freinds with a lot of older people like i know a group of lads that are really well known were i live and they are all in there 20's.

But there is just one of them that i always catch his eye looking at me and he does the same when i look at him but its weird its not just like a "look" i like like him and when i think about him i get really upset and i dont know why?

He is 20 and going into the royal marines and he is really nice and apsolutley georgeous! i dont speak to him that often i am more freindly with his other freinds!

but the other day i went to one of his freinds 22nd birthday party then we headed off into town and he came over to me and all his freinds were looking and he just started talkiong to me and in my head i just couldnt stop thinking OHHH my god hes talking to me but it wasnt like i had never spoken to him before?

itsss really annoying me i know he is far to old for me and your all goign to say "he wants you for one thing" but i really dont know i feel diefferent around him but i dont know him enough to like talk to him and stuff!

how do i make him notice and talk to me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010):

It seems that from what you have said, your relationship with this man could be described as friendly acquaintances. At this stage, it is nigh on impossible to tell what kind of person he is, how the two of you will get along, whether he wants sex from you, a relationship, a fling, or a drinking buddy. In order to make a decision on what kind of relationship you want with this guy in the future, you are going to have to get to know him better. Starting a conversation can be intimidating, but it is probably going to be necessary. Ask him about something, and keep the conversation going for a while. good luck and have fun.

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