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writes:Ok, so how can this man I love so much, hold me and at his own will profess all his love and caring and say how happy we are together and couldnt imagine life without me, suddenly just a little bit later same day insult me? Help, I am confused! Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 If it's only this one time he's ever done that kind of thing, maybe something was bothering him. Something he just thought up all on his own. The human brain goes through 6000 thoughts at a time, subconsciously and consciously, one of them is bound to lead him into anger. Don't judge him too harshly but be wary of his actions. Hope that this was just a one-time thing, if it goes on and on, leave him.
I hope that helps.
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reader, notquitesure +, writes (6 September 2010):
He may be totally in love with you but be upset about something he cant control. Like knowing your past or something about your ex, etc... so he lashes out .
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reader, romany  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Hmmmm, its a difficult one, as you've not given us much info, can you tell us more, coz just with what you say, I'm sorry to say, but It could be a bit of the 'kiss kiss slap' routine of a controlling man going on here, They start with lulling you into a false security, telling you your the bee's knees and how important you are to him, and how he will always love you, and now and again, he will throw in an insult, a put down, anything really to chip away at your self esteem, and in time you will be totally dependant on him, and you wont have even seen it coming, however, you appear to be stronger than some, and hopefully you can keep an eye out for the games and get out, if this is the case.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Did you get into an argument? A little more info would be helpful, but in relationships it can't all be rosy, there will be fights, however don't stand for someone insulting you.
My friend's ex says he can't live without her and three text messages later he called her a cunt. Some guys have tempers, like all people do.
Just be careful. If it happens consistently then its a bigger problem. Make sure to fasten up your backbone and don't stand for anyone insulting you.
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