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36-40,
*iss williamz
writes:Please people help i dont seem to be communicating with myself well. I feel manipulating myself with my decisions am not sure about my decision.I broke up with my boyfriend of 3yrs 1yr ago. Now just recently we have started talking again. He is kinda changed and very apologetic for cheating on me with another girl. He is sorry each time i bring the topic up and now he is willing to do anythng to be with me and marry me. Now my problem is i dont really trust him. Its been a year and i had even started forgeting him. But now he has brought back oldfeeling and i stil think i have feelingz for him. I have also had a rough time in that one year to love again.But just the other day while we were together dating there was a girl he was fond off i never asked him who she was. Just recently i asked him gand he told me he wanted to persuade the girl but my problem was few wfeks after our break up he wanted to move on and date her but thngz didnt work out. Now am in a dilemma is he truly sorry? Or he just wants to use me ? I dont understand him. And worried my weakness is goin to cause.help i dont make te same mistake
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Im not sure i know what you are saying. Is it that he wanted the other girl, pursued her, but she wasnt interested. Now he has come back to you and you arent sure if he really wants you or if he is settling for you because he couldnt have her?
If in doubt, spend a looong time getting to know him, and dating. Dont jump back into this too quickly. If you dont trust him, then i wouldnt waste my time on him frankly.
If you think he made a mistake, and is sorry, then by all means give him a second chance. I would just say, go with your gut feeling on it. mal
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