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female
age
36-40,
*ebbie_cool
writes:I need some advise.I'm married for 3.5 years.My marriage did not go well right from the start.My husband was verbally and emotionally abusive.My in-laws played their part too in making my life miserable.I could not take it any more. So i just walked out of the house packing my stuff and with a determination never to return. But now, he asks me for one final chance.He always asks for chances every time things go wrong.We might be happy for a week, then something would come up and he would trash me and my family with words that i cant pen down at all.Then i go into depression and low self esteem for weeks together.By then the fight would have turned cold, i try to move on.Now, i dont want to live such an unhappy life.I hardly remember the last time i was happy or even smiled. He always has this knack to get things done his way. Should i believe him now? after going through all the trouble??I dont believe his words, But so wish they were true.Should i give one final try. I'm so scared.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 not unless you enjoy mental abuse and over control keep on walking
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reader, Alvy  +, writes (6 September 2010):
No, definitely do not let this man back into your life, by doing so you are letting him walk all over you, he is testing the waters by asking you for one more chance to see how strong a person you really are, do not give into him.
Also do not be scared you are your own person without him, you do not need this man unless he brings happiness into your life.
And sometimes when we love someone, we have to let them go, and if they are meant to be they will come back, but that doesn't mean you have to have him back right now, time will tell, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Stay away. He's just trying to get you back in to his web. Abuse is something very serious, and if you give him another chance he can make it worse to try and force you to stay with him. So staaaay away.
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