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*lphonse7575
writes: I am 35 year old man my sex drive is low. I love my wife, but i don't want it every day whereas she does! she is 46. What do I do?
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (6 September 2010):
Maca.
& more sleep and more exercise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): i recently started having sex and had the same problem (i wanted it and he didnt) but now we have stoped and we are both much happier im not sayin u should stop just try talking to her and telling her that u cant do it everyday
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): See a physician.
Seriously, you may have a hormonal problem, and you might be really surprised by it.
If you are taking any type of medication, using any type of drug, prescription or not, opiates as well as other drugs (including alcohol and marijuana), then you need to bring that up in this context as well.
Don't be like someone I know who assumed for 5 years that he just didn't want sex, only to see a physician and find out that he didn't have any sex drive because of a hormonal problem that wasn't diagnosed.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (6 September 2010):
You can simply explain this to her, or you can have sex more than you want. Its about communication, don't be like "not tonight" but explain that you love her, she's great and you enjoy the sex you have with her, however your sex drive is lower and you're finding it hard to keep up. Just don't be short with her otherwise she might think its personally about her, not you.
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reader, jodieleigh +, writes (6 September 2010):
em ... tell her that you cant do it everyday, tell her your not all about sex. shes a girl, she should understand.
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