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*avid1234567890
writes:Hi, I am writing to you with hope that you will reply me because i am in real emotional pain. Actually few months ago i started to have a voice chat with a guy who is living in India and we have developed feelings for each other.We haven't seen each other yet but i have a picture of him in my mind after seeing his pictures and through webcam. I just want know that person i have fallen in love with is a limernece ,infatuation or real love because he made a confession of love few days ago but i still doubt that its some form of infatuation or limerence.We reciprocate our feelings quite well.I am copying and pasting few of his e-mails he sent to me when i have not been able to contact him for few days.HIS FIRST MAIL:Please don't leave me here to rot all alone, I feel so lonely without you here.Please come back, i'm not sure what i did to deserve this punishment for if you had any feelings for me you would have contacted me on way or another. Don't u miss me like i do? You have my no. you have my email address you could write in a few words or call me one way or another.Please come back :(I love you!It's been more then a week since i last heard from you, I have come to the point that i believe there must be more to everything u've told me or else if you really loved me like you said you do, you would have tried to communicate with the person you have true feelings for.I pray to God that wherever you might be, you are blessed with good health, happiness and prosperity.I can only thank God for sending an angel in disguise in your shape to make things brighter on my side and i got more then i deserved which is why you've been taken away from me. I thank God for all the good times for all the beautiful lessons he has taught me through you and that if you had been around in my life i would've been a changed man. but Thank you God for bestowing your blessings upon me in the form of the most beautiful human being i have ever come across.I kept telling my heart that i would control myself, i would control my feelings even if you never showed up and that it wouldn't make a difference as i've had you only for a month but i was so wrong, I think about you every minute of the day to the point that i've started dreaming that your online and i wake up and rush online to see if your there but your absence fills my heart with gloom and darkness. It's very hard to say this but i think i've found what is called true love in the shape of you and whatever your shortcomings might be, even if you have hidden anything from me i would still accept you for the wonderful person that you are.If you have found someone else or if you despise me and don't want to be a part of this circle, i would accept that but to have you as a brother as a friend would be an honor, so please do not take that away from me. Please write back to me or call me, My life is completely mechanical without hearing your voice, bad thoughts keep coming to me and i pray to God that if my friend is in any sort of misery please punish me in his place but keep him safe and happy.If i have ever caused any pain to you intentionally or unintentionally, Please forgive me for that.I LOVE YOU (These seem mere words when i write them but there are unexplainable feelings behind them)Please come back, i would do anything in my means for you.HIS SECOND MAIL WHEN MORE DAYS HAVE PASSED:It's been 2 weeks since we last spoke to one another, what is it that you've completely stopped thinking about me? while i can't seem to take my mind off you even for a moment.I haven't been feeling well since two days and i'm really depressed that you left me too or at least it seems like that. I am trying to be optimistic and have belief in what you asked me to, to have faith in our love but the wait has been very stressful for me. I've tried to steer my attention to other activities at night so i don't have to wait for you endlessly but i can't seem to think properly because your not here. My promise to you was genuine and so is my love and i will keep waiting to hear from you. If there's anything that you've hidden from me anything you'd like to tell me..please do tell me so i would know the reasons for your sudden disappearance as i just can't seem to believe how you don't get time to even send me a small sms telling me your alright or whatever the situation is at your end. I know that if your in trouble there's not much i can do for you sitting overhere but atleast i can pray and be a shoulder of support to you.please come back because i really need you.I need your advice on it that whether this guy is in love or infatuation. Waiting desperately for your response.
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reader, Plain Jane  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Dear David, I am so sorry if this can be a bit sensitive issue on racist. I live and work with Indians, I know most of them tend to be a little exaggerate and dramatic when they talk, act or write. He maybe genuinely concern and care of your short term lost touch but the way he writes is too much' flowery' words. I will not be touched and only trust fifty percent of the email content.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 It's an email, that's what it is. If he loves you like he says, then tell him to move to England and spend the rest of your life with you. Let's end his pain of waiting forever.
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