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writes:im a little fat.... but im shapely and i have a close to flat tummy and 40 C boobs. i am worried everyone will just think im a fat lard lol. my middle skewl friends say thee are alot of REALLY fat people. im starting middle school tommorow and im worried. Do you think my body type will attract a guy or is my body type okay? i want to be popular....i have the friends and i've heard ALOT that im funny and kewl but im shy. p.s i have a boyfriend... i just want to impress him.
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reader, xoxDrkrosexox +, writes (12 December 2010):
xoxDrkrosexox is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell some of u told me to tell how it goes soooo ya its pretty awesome. Right now im dating this REALLY cute boy Tyler. he has the brightest deepest blueyest eyes ever!! and his hair is so curly and golden blond i love it. And i dont worry anymore. Im with the popular group as usual and its kewl. Thanks yall:)
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (7 September 2010):
 You can never fully accept someone loving you the way you are until you fully accept yourself. If you are unhappy with yourself and desperatly want to change, do it and then look for the person you want. Being insecure when ur man likes u is a major turn off. Personally as long as my man likes me the way I am I could care less what ever the hell other people think. Learn to love yourself, because if you don't love you, you'll never truly allow others to love you as well.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 September 2010):
Everyone has different likes and dislikes. If you're on the thicker side, some guys like that and some guys don't. What matters is if you like yourself. If you don't like yourself or the way your body looks, you can change it. If you're happy the way you are, then stay the way you are.
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reader, silentrose333 +, writes (6 September 2010):
 okay, well i've been in your shoes....right now im 155 pounds and im a 36D bra size..im also 5 foot 8..and in highschool. dont worry about it!! there are SO many people in middle school, and they're not all judgemental. Dont care about what others think; be yourself!! If you have a boyfriend then surely he loves you for who you are...and not the stick thin blondie big boob mean personality girls in school. also, EVERYONE wants to be popular; to be the one who fits in; the one every guy wants to go out with. But that's not what it's about. through time you'll find a group of best friends, and it wont even matter anymore. i thought that because i was a little bigger, no one would ever like me....i now have 996 die-hard best friends who would die for me, and a boyfriend who loves me for who i am. it'll come, you dont have to push it. Good luck!!
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reader, dijoyful  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Sweetie, really people are so worried what other people are thinking about THEM they will hardly notice anyone else around them. As i have got older, i have come to realise that we all come in differant shapes and sizes, it is our personality that carries us through life. Being confidant, at ease with who we are has a very possitive effect on other people and how they see us. I am now at my biggest and have never been happier, i am like you shapely and a little overweight, and i get plenty of good attention cause i am friendly, and i smile alot. You will allway get a few insecure people who will try and put you down to make themselves feel better, their the ones with the problems and are probably more unhappy and insecure than you. Just keep telling yourself how wonderful you are, you sound as if you have the right kind of attitude already. Go out and have fun, everyone will want to be around such a happy fun loving person.
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 well if you had attracted your boyfriend then of course you will attract other boys. im in the exact situation, i HATE puppy fat. thing is there is that well known saying that it doesnt matter whats on the outside, but whats in the in..
then again, like me, you know that you want to do that little bit extra.. you will defo attract boys, especially with the word of others that you are cool and witty; thats all you need :)
tell me how it goes ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Well from what your describing yourself as, you have a body very similar to my girlfriends and she's 15 in 7 days and I have to say most guys find her attractive, defiantly me:) you shouldn't be so cautious, every guy is different though, but you defiantly find guys that are attracted to you and in time you wouldn't care, trust me.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 If body type really mattered all that much in a loving relationship there's one heck of a lot of us that would be out there looking for a bridge to jump from. You're a woman, act like one and get off the body type hype!
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