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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically, a few months ago my friend told me he liked me when we were both drunk. We got off a lot at different times but didnt go any further because I wasn't sure if he did actually liked me because he only told me when he was drunk and never when he was sober. Things got a bit complicated and we didn't talk for a while with me unintentionally pushing him away when my Grandad died. Now he's going out with someone else, but I still like him. The thing is I'm going back to uni in a few weeks and I have to share a house with him and a few other friends, his girlfriend will be around ours a lot and I'm worried about how awkward things will be, especially since I still like him as more than a friend even though I know it's pointless. How can I make sure that it seems like I don't like him in that way anymore? And how do I go about talking to him when we haven't spoken in months? I know this sounds like such a stupid thing but I keep worrying about how awkward things are going to be as I can't change my housing arrangments, I don't want it to ruin my year at uni! Any advice is welcome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): When the time comes you will find the strength and the grace to be natural with him. Make sure you are in a group the first few times...but it will get easier every time you do it. Dont worry sweetie, I have a feeling that you will find a way. :) mal
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