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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been working on trying to get back together a week or so after a breakup. During the breakup we decided it'd be best if we stayed friends, but we started missing each other a lot so we started giving it another try.But the problem is that I don't know if this relationship can be saved. Her family despises me, she doesn't trust me anymore and last night we had a fight about how I haven't changed and I need more confidence. We've had to have a lot of define-the-relationship talks.I don't want to lose what we had, and neither does she. What we had was a beautiful thing and I feel like it can be saved. Neither of us want to move on, but it's getting harder to hold on. Is there a chance at all that she'll genuinely come to trust and love me the way she used to or is this all a waste of time for both of us?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Trust cant just be rebuilt like that, the best thing to do is take a break from eachother work on your issues and then try things again in a couple months. its a waste of time if you keep pushing it. Take a break.
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