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writes:I have got two older sisters and both are married. The husband of the older sister starts to flirts with the younger sister all the time. My older sister suspects they are having an affair behind her back. She talks to her husband and the younger sister separately. They both denied and stops going out together for a short time then back again seeing each other if they can. My sister is upset about it but cant end the marriage due to finanical problem and she is still have feeling for her husband. She told me to keep quiet and dont make a scene of it. I feel bad to see her being betrayed by her husband and sister and couldnt say a word about it. I want to help but dont know what I can do about it. Please advice.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 September 2010):
I think the only thing you can do is try to be there for your older sister. The last thing you want to do is try to get involved. You don't know EXACTLY what is going on in any of their marriages or if anything is going on. Although, I think most people wouldn't consider what her husband and your other sister are doing as normal, there's really no proof except for what your older sister is telling you. There's nothing you can do to help fix anything, is their deal so it's best just to stay out of it. Listen to your sister when she needs someone to talk to, but don't get involved talking to her husband or your other sister about it. It can only make things worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Your sister knows and is doing her best to deal with it. Just be there for her. She needs to deal with this her own wa...just support her in that. mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Im afraid that in this instance there is nothing you can do as your sister (the one being betrayed) already knows the score and has specifically asked you to keep quiet.
All you can do is to be there for her and offer her a shoulder to cry on whenever she needs it. You could also try knocking some sense into your other sister but thats about it.
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