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writes: i was in a 2 and a half year relationship and ive been madly in love with her until i started getting gut feelings about getting cheated on. i asked several times and she sweared she would never or has never done that. but the feelings were so strong i had 2 bluff her into telling me the truth and it hurt sooo bad. she said "crying hard" that she still hadnt grown out of her phase of promiscuity the first year we were together. but it dosent make any sense because i treated her like a queen and we both told eachother constantly that weve never felt such strong feelings b4 in our lives 4 any 1 else. she comes from a past of a lot of men so i took a chance but if our feelings were soooooo strong as she agreed y would she continue 2 do the guy she was messing around with b4 me while we were falling so hard over eachother? its so hard 2 believe her that after she got her ring she stopped and shes changed now ps we had a sick baby 2gether that is 11 months old that we stayed at a childrens hospital 4 2 and a half months as i stayed by her side the whole time and now idk if hes even mine:-( we gotta get a test but still my main question is what makes people girls do that im 34 and shes 24 now she was 21 then i dont know how im gonna get through this shes moved out and im all alone now
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Do the DNA test. If its not yours walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): first things first, i am sorry yo are going through all this trauma and tormoil.
next when will you get the DNA test results?
if this baby is not yours what then?
if this baby is yours, can you stay with its cheating mother for the rest of your life.
One day and one step at a time. get the results first then i will send you my usual rant.
take care
-LoveGirl
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