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female
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36-40,
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writes:i'm still friends with a guy i started to have a relationship with back some time ago now! But we never actually meet to catch up anymore because i'm married! He says its cause he doesn't trust himself not to do anything even though i know he wont! He's not that sorta guy! Anyways! i'm moving away at the end of the year n i've asked him to meet up with me so we can talk n i can be one hundred percent sure that what i'm doing is the right thing! I'm still attracted to this guy as he is me so it's like a test n he knows that! Should i tell my husband n cause a hassle or see what happens then tell my husband later? I feel i need to go through with this test but i also feel like i'm betraying hubby! HELP ME PLEASE!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): Do you remember the part about forsaking all others? That doesnt mean you forsake your friends, but this is a guy who doesnt want to meet because he has innappropriate feelings toward you. I think this is more of an ego thing for you than a "saying goodbye" "wondering if I'm doing the right thing" test. The time for wondering was before you said I do...dont push this one. Say goodbye on the phone and respect your friend, and yourself...and especially your husband. You should still be in your honeymoon phase...and honeymoon's are meant for 2 people....three's a crowd.
AND NO DO NOT MENTION THIS TO YOUR HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!! mal
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