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writes:When someone says they are or have been thinking of you is it considered:1) friendly2) relationship materialor 3) quit making a big deal of it?I don't want to go into details in my case, I want to see other people's opinions and their relationship experience to see what it means to them.Would you say it to someone who is not your boy/girlfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, indistinguishable +, writes (22 September 2010):
indistinguishable is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you, I appreciate your comments and sharing!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 September 2010):
 2. Usually when I hear that it's coming from a guy I'm interested in, dating, or a current flame. However, I never said it to another guy..I say it to my husband when he is away from me going to schools for his training in the army. So whenever I use it or it's been used around me it's in the "I like you, I miss you" sense.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 September 2010):
D. All of the above! It just depends on the situation and person. I'll say it to my girlfriends because I haven't seen them in a long time and sometimes I get busy or they're busy, but just want to let them know that I still value their friendship.
However, if I say it to a guy; that's a different story. If I tell him I've been thinking about him, it's usually because I "like" him. If it's a guy who is just my friend and I don't view romantically, I won't tell him I'm thinking about him because I wouldn't want him to get the wrong idea. But if it's a guy I'm interested in (and he's not my boyfriend) I'll tell him I'm thinking about him, I guess it's a light way of flirting on my end.
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