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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay so this is for my sister. She and her now fiance (great guy, love him to death!) are in a rough spot. Before they got together they were seeing other people pretty regularly, and when they decided to commit to each other, they respectfully agreed to inform any and all previous girlfriends boyfriends or lovers. Things were going great until my sister gets a text from some lady claiming she "tricked" my to be brother in law into getting her pregnant! My sister is handling this really well most likely because this all actually happened before they knew one another. My sister agreed that if her beloved wanted to keep the baby and help raise it that she would gladly help out, she loves kids. Well the girl doesnt want her to have anything with the baby because it seems she is extremely jealous of babysis. She keeps harassing us telling us that "oh I'll get him back, I dont care if he says he is in love with you." This poor delusional girl has been told in person (i was there to witness) that he doesnt want the child, and once paternity is clarified through DNA testing, that he will sign over his parental rights. He wants to do this as a scare tactic to get it through to this girl that my sister and he will be married in November and if he is to have anything to do with the child, my sister is his other half and she is to be respected and included as well. What the hell do I tell this pathetic girl to get her off my sisters back? I swear, I think I am more disturbed than she is by this whole ordeal!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): Honey, I am the oldest in my family and as the big sis, we want to fix it all for our siblings.
Sometimes we just can't. It isnt our business. Leave it alone, and let them take care of their business.
Truly i do understand...my brother has just been in essence been given a probable death sentence at 38,and i am helpless to make it better... my baby sister is due to deliver her first baby, and i am hours away. We feel that it is our responsibility to make life easier for them, and we do. We would do anything within our power to help, but life just isnt always that easy.
Let them do it, its part of the rite of passage we all go thru starting a relationship. It belongs to the two of them...let go of your baby sister. just be her sister and her friend...mal
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