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writes:My friend is gay. She told me she wanted to change and asked me what she should do. I wasn't able to give her any good advice because I haven't been in that situation before so I don't know how she feels about it. I'm always here for her, but I want to help her more. I wish I could somehow give an opinion on how she could change. What should I tell her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): If she truly is gay, it's not something she can suddenly change. She can't choose to be attracted to men instead of women.
Instead, she might start to feel better about herself by exploring her sexuality - and I don't necessarily mean having sexual interactions with a lot of people. I mean, she could join lesbian support groups, interact with other gay women, do some reading on issues relating to her sexuality, etc.
Rather than be embarrassed about something she was born feeling, she should embrace it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with her.
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