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writes:Okay so, I'm kinda paranoid - everytime I kiss my girlfriend, she just don't really respond and trys to ignore it but she loves me? I don't know what it means, she ain't ready? I would appreciate someone to set me straight on this, thanks in advance.
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reader, iluk +, writes (8 September 2010):
No, I haven't asked her as I last saw her two weeks ago - she's on holiday. But I'm not really sure if she is sexually attracted to me or such, she did ask me out though so she must be unless she's using me which when I've spoke to her about using people etc she's been like 'why would anyone do that?!' so I
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reader, Blod +, writes (6 September 2010):
 She's probably insecure about something. Firstly, is she definitely into you? Does she seem to be interested in you on the whole? If you're sure that she fancies you, then my thoughts are that she's probably quite self-conscious. She might feel insecure of herself and doesn't know how to react to you kissing her. You could ask her if she's ok with you kissing her or if there's something bothering her.
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reader, girlyy1 +, writes (6 September 2010):
I think there are two answers to this question. Either:
1. she just doesn't fancy you - she really really likes you, and see's you as a partner (potentially long term etc) but she doesn't have that sexual attraction. She may feel guilty about this - but there may be little you can do about it.
2. she has issues about kissing? some people just don't like it very much. I guess you need to decide whether or not you can live with that.
Have you asked her why she doesn't respond?
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