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writes:My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it has been tough. The hardest part is knowing that I think she's the one for me. I know that she loves me too, is there anything I can do to convince her that she and I belong together?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 Well its obvious she doesnt want to be with you, so stop chasing her, go out and meet someone new, she will soon become a distant memory.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it wasn't really a mutual breakup, it was more like she broke up with me and I wanted with her to stay with me. I knew for sometime that she was the one for me and I would try and tell her how much she meant to me everyday. It was a long distance relationship and she was older then me as well. Her explanations for the breakup was that we were both on different paths in our lives. It never bothered me that she was older or that she was doing different things that I normally wouldn't do because I knew at the end of the day I loved her deeply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): If you broke up then she's not the one. You may think she's the one for you but if you have to convince her then obviously your not the one for her. Move on.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (24 September 2010):
This is hard to answer because you give no background on your relationship or went wrong so its hard to say what went wrong. you need to give more details, if you wish not to then sit your ex down sort out your problems and tell her she is the one and you dont want to lose her.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 The best cure for a break up is time.
I once thought I had met the one, but it didnt work out. I was eventually able to move on and found another girlfriend which turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made.
If your break up is recent then just avoid contact with her for now, she will start missing you and more than likley contact you unless she has moved on already (i.e. found someone else)
You cant convince her she has to make up her own mind, all you can do is apologise if it was your fault or listen to her if it was her fault.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 You tell her and you discuss what went wrong with your relationship. Avoid getting too focused on who's fault it was. Just try and make it work.
I hope that helps.
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