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writes:i started staying with my husband actually four months ago im 23 he is 35,everything else is fine except our sexual life problem is we rarely make love at most 3times a week .He doesnt touch or kiss for the past 2months when we make love he doesnt as well imagine my body craves for his touch and kiss and i think its gonna be like that for us,should i tell him how i feel without hurting his feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): I stayed married to a guy for 25 years who didn't want sex for long periods but wouldn't discuss it or go to a relationship counsellor. (I would have been grateful for 3 times a week!) I divorced him and found a much better bloke. I suggest you tell him it's really bothering you and that you go for counselling. If he refuses, he doesn't care about your needs or worries and doesn't deserve you - dump him.
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reader, lungalele  +, writes (24 September 2010):
Sex is not about an individual in a relationship but abt u as a couple, this is ur husband nt a boyfriend or a stranger to u. Try to initiate it more often and see his response to it, after that its then that u can actually sit him down and tell him how u feel and I believe he will listen. He will really thank ur honesty to let him know. As far as I am concerned u are both at the age of flexibility and comfortability bcoz what u do nw will be sturk with u. Enjoy ur life while u can and good luck
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