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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I kissed an old friend a few months ago and since then we've been meeting up whenever he is passing through my city. He said that he wanted us to have a relationship, to be a couple, and I said that we would talk about it the next time we saw each other. But until he got back, he was really bad at keeping in contact with me. I would email him back and he wouldn't reply for a week. When I saw him recently in person, he said that he wanted to start seeing each other and I said that I didn't see how he could be interested in having a relationship when he didn't seem interested in keeping in contact. He said that he was just really bad at keeping in contact with people.I believe that it's how people treat you that matters and not what they say, that speaks volumes. He doesn't seem interested in me, never asks me any questions, and since I told him that it annoyed me that he doesn't keep in touch, he hasn't made the effort to keep in touch.I really like him but I'm thinking that I should maybe stop it now and stop sleeping with him. I don't like one night stands for the reason that it doesn't feel very nice to never hear from someone again afterwards. He is an old friend, I care about him and it feels even worse when he doesn't get in touch after we've slept together. It's heartbreaking. Should I cut my losses and run?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): Cut him loose darly u dersev bettr' he does not knw wht he wants.
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