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How should I tell my guy best friend I love him?

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Question - (24 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2010)
A male Philippines age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm bi-curios and I'm in love with my guy best friend. We treat each other as brothers. I'm 2 years older that him. The 2 of us get really close to each other, we even wrestle and tickle each other almost all the time. we like holding each others hand while walking and he doesn't care if other people see us holding hands. One time we almost kissed each other but we were disturbed by someone then the both of us blushed. When I'm doing something across the room he would always look at me and when I catch him looking at me he would look the other way but sometimes he would just stare at me for 5 seconds and I would notice his pupils dilate. Does he has feelings for me to? How and should I tell him that i'm in love with him?

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A male reader, der_zyniker United States +, writes (25 September 2010):

I would find at time that you two are alone and just sit him down and tell him how you feel about him. That's what I've done with every guy friend that I've been interested in. Granted they all turned out to be straight so far, but they were always glad that I told them.

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A female reader, Ichiko United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2010):

Ichiko agony auntWow wow, your love sounds so pure!!

I'd say he definately likes you! Just don't suddenly blurt it out when he's least expecting it Try and be romantic i guess (If your a romantic kinda guy) things might naturally ocur from then on =]

Good luck, i hope it turns well!

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (24 September 2010):

dirtball agony auntIt sounds like he is interested in you. I think that what you're describing sounds deeper then most of the same sex friendships I've experienced in my life. The body language you describe is definitely an indiciation of attraction.

I'd talk to him. I wouldn't come right out and say you love him, but tell him that you're attracted to him and was wondering if he felt the same way. See where it goes. Good luck!

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