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writes:Me and my girlfriend broke up about 7 months ago, and since them I haven't been able to forget her. I've been telling most my friends I've been over her, but know things took another proportion and I just don't know what to do any more..I'll start from the beginning, we broke up because of a stupid fight.. Well to tell the truth it was because of the weather, and usually I would let her win but that day I was mad (don't remember why), so after that we both went our ways and didn't talk for about 1 week.. Well after that week it was my birthday, so I was expecting that in that day she would call me and we would make everything fine.. She didn't call, and the next day I was really mad! So I send her a stupid text, and them she broke up with me...After that happening, I was in a shock state I didn't know what to do.. So I let time go by.. And about a month later I call her, and we started talking again as friends.. That was not what I wanted to, so I just jump in and told her that I still loved her and would do anything to have her back.. So answer me in such a cold way: "I just want to be friends, I don't feel anything for you."So I stuck up with being her friend for about 5 months.. While being her boyfriend I would do anything for her, everything she asked I got her.. One day she asked me to help her move, so I said yes right away. After helping her, she was rude to me and saw that I was used.. So I stopped talking to her for some time, just to see if I really could forget her.. Didn't worked that way, just missed her more..So I apologize her for that, and know we still talk.But now she has moved into my college and I'm seeing her everyday, and I can't focus any more on my study.. I just keep thinking of her, even after all of this.. And she only calls me know just to asked me things about the college..I'm going crazy just for one girl, I don't know what I should do now.. I want her back, but that's something I will never have.. So I do I forget her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were almost for about 1 year..
And I've tried those things, I even took her into a day out only me and her..
Nothing worked, that's why I'm trying to forget her..
If there was anything I could do, I would do it without thinking.
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reader, SweetindianGirl  +, writes (25 September 2010):
how long were you with your girlfriend?! and you cannot forget someone you are IN LOVE WITH! so no, dont forget her...approach her tell her its awkward being near you but not near you...tell her you want to tell her you miss her but cannot because you are afraid she wont let you open up! be honest you can never go wrong.
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