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*mmy1973
writes:hi there, wondering if i can get some advice before i confront my partner.weve been in a relationship for 3 years but we live separatlyLast feb we split for a while,getting back together at the end of march.the problem is this - late last year,around october time we hardley saw each other,he went from staying round all the time and me staying at his to him popping in for half hour after work then going home,not staying over,not wanting me there and going days without seeing each otheraround this time i also found a pair of womens gold earrings in his flat-for whatever reason i didnt say anything,then two weeks ago i found a text on his phone,it was sent by a number i dont know to him in january at 5 past midnight,saying "phone me when your out" with a kiss we hardley spoke or saw each other,he wouldnt stay over,strange gold earrings,texts late at night from a strange number with kisses (one of which he's kept since january)- have i got reason to believe he's cheated on me? please can someone advise.thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): Well at worst he is cheating, and at best he is giving someone else the attention that should be yours...
I think you should sit down with him and tell him what you suspect. Dont be confrontational because it will make him defensive before you even say anything. Do not neccesarily believe what he says, watch his body language. You cant stay with someone that you dont trust...Hes definitly due a hard look.
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reader, tblondie1826  +, writes (24 September 2010):
I would confront him. I'd hate to make you upset but it's pretty obvious he's cheating. Asking him will only provide more evidence and probably hurt worse. If you truly love him discuss it with him, but he probably won't stop. Best bet is to dump him, have the upper hand. Don't wait around for someone who is two timing you. It'll be difficult seeing as you have 3 years of a past together, but you deserve better. There are men in this world who do not cheat, it is just a little harder to find them.
Goodluck:)
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