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writes:I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do?He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Well they obviously arent good friends if they arent going to talk to you over this, if they cared about you then they would be there for you at this difficult time and be glad that you got out of an abusive relationship, they arent worth it, just take this time to get stronger, there is a better man out there for you that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did as you all of said and stated.
Right now it feels like the worst thing I could have ever done. Friends will not talk to me. I can't even buy a pack of cigs. (Small town friends work everywhere)
But I am going to listen to what you all have said. It will be rough I know but I can do this. Thank you everyone.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (26 September 2010):
Yes dont be scared to leave him, you need to do this for yourself, he doesnt deserve you and you dont deserve to be treated this way, please take everyones advice and walk away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI feel if I leave him, he will use it against me.
We have a long history together. My friends turned into his.
I'm just scared, Will it really be worth leaving him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): Perhaps he's got the narcissism disorder. Quietly walk away.
Refuse any form of abuse, dump him and find a worthier man.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Because saying love words is easy and takes no effort,- and keeps you quiet and off his back at least for a while - while showing love through actions is much more demanding in terms of time , effort and some times personal sacrifice.
If he is willing to drop you like nothing - then he does not love you. No matter if he 'd say "I love you" 200 times a day.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 September 2010):
Because he doesn't love you. A man who treats you this badly isn't a man who should be in your life. He hits you, he treats you badly, and he doesn't care. Don't ever have anything else to do with this man. He's not worth your time, and you can do better than him.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (24 September 2010):
Darling if he is hurting you physically emotionally and mentally then he doesnt love you especially if you arent coming first in his eyes, and physical violence is a no no, get out of this relationship now its a sham and you are onyl going to get more and more hurt and he is just going to eat away at your self confidence get out socializing and meeting new friends again, forget about this man he doesnt deserve you he is a bully, you will find someone who truly loves you and you will look back and wonder why you ever let a man treat you like this.
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