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*adiolay
writes:During sex, I tend to bite my boyfriend's neck and dig my nails into his back. Is there a deeper meaning into what we do to our partners during intercourse, or is it just us reacting to being caught up in the moment? Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Biting and scratching is fun. Not only is our pain threshhold higher during sex, the part of the brain that processes horniness is also the part that processes violent urges. If you're really letting yourself get into the moment, you might bite and scratch a bit.
Have fun!
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (24 September 2010):
 It's just who you are when you are enjoying it. I bite sometimes myself, I've even left marks. They were unintended marks of course. If your boyfriend has a problem with it, try taking a different approach to expressing your pleasure. I used to bite more than I do now and I had a guy who didn't like it. So, I learned to vocalize...a lot. It's whatever works for you and your partner.
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reader, radiolay +, writes (24 September 2010):
radiolay is verified as being by the original poster of the question I've never drawn blood, Just to the point of minor scarring the next day. I don't want to hurt him :)
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reader, youngmum89  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 i tend to do that aswel when i'm doing it with my bf but he likes it he doesnt like wen i leave marks on his neck so i now tend to bite his chest or sumthin like that he gets turned on more when i do it, ask him if he likes it and if he does i dont think its a problem if he doesnt just hold on to a pillow and bite that
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reader, Viajante  +, writes (24 September 2010):
I second dirtball. I've never been with a girl who clawed in until she drew blood, but I have to admit it IS kinda sexy.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 September 2010):
 It's what you like. It's your way of expressing your intense feelings. I've never personally been into biting, but I do love when a girl claws my back during sex. Even if she draws blood I don't care. I tend to feel more into it because I know she's loving it too.
I wouldn't dig too deep for meaning. Just try to find someone who likes it a bit rough and you'll be a good match.
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