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Pain during sex and unable to reach an orgasm.....what is wrong with me?

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Question - (24 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2010)
A female Zimbabwe age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am a lady aged 28 and am having problems with my boyfriend when it come to sex. when having sex i feel pain on penetration and i dont reach my orgasm. what can i do because i am not sexually active and i dont even think of having sex when i am alone. please help if there is any medication for this.

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A male reader, gigolojone Uganda +, writes (24 September 2010):

gigolojone agony auntHaving sex before one is ready can be very painful.

Try to engage your partner into foreplay as this is a very important step towards getting you as a woman ready for sex.

Talk to your partner about this,find a better and simpler way of not rushing to get in,rather he should make sure you are wet enough before he can get there.

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2010):

Kenj agony auntDoes your boyfriend have a large penis? If so it may be pressing on your cervix. Try using additional lubrication and try to relax more.

More foreplay is also a good thing to try.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (24 September 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntno medication i am afriad. Your boyfriend just needs to spend more time on foreplay and making you feel like you want sex he needs to warm your body up and use plenty of lubrication so that it makes things easier and less painful, as for orgasm most women reach orgasm through stimulation of the clitiros.

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