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female
age
36-40,
*ungalele
writes:I have been together with him for 4 years and have a son who is 10 mths, he now seem so different in everything, he arrives latw from work, always fighting, excuses in bed and I am worried dat I am gonna lose him and I lv him so much, sometimes I wonder if having the baby is the sourse of all dis, can it be and what can I do to take things back to the way they were? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Maybe he got a little scared and doesnt want to think of himself as settled down for the rest of his life, or maybe he is stressed at work and doesnt want to tell you and there fore is taking it out in anger and frustration. There is only one way you can deal with this and that is to sit him down some evening when the baby is in bed and tell him how you feel, dont try and judge him and let him know you are there for him if he needs to talk but tell him things need to change as you are scared that you are going to lose him. Good Luck.
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