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writes:So there is this relief teacher who has just been accepted into my school and i know for a fact that she is only 19. I'm 16, a girl, and i'm the senior in my school. When i first saw her, i was blown away because she was really quite attractive. She had the coolest fashion sense and hairstyle, and she screams "GAY", really. Even the blind can see that she's so gay. Being gay myself, of course i knew that she's gay too. So when i saw her first, I checked her out very obviously i think (just like how gay girls check out other girls that they get the gay vibe from). She turned around, caught me checking her out, and i quickly looked away. Every morning after that day, i would bump into her in the front porch and somehow i just can't stop checking her out. Once, i caught HER staring at this "I Love Lesbians" badge i had on my bag and when i looked at her, she looked at her feet before looking back at me. When i pass her in corridors, she'd look me straight in the eye before looking down almost embarrassedly at her feet. Its like she's blushing. And then around a week after that, when i passed her near the staff room, she greeted me a good morning. And when i replied, "Hi!", i could swear that i saw a hint of nervousness flicker over her eyes. What i want to know is, why is she acting so weird around me? Am i just being paranoid? Is it possible that she have the hots for me just like how i have the hots for her? Should i do something about it? Because i really would like to know more about her but i'm not sure if it's okay for me to befriend her! I mean, we're only 3 years in age gap, and if we got too close in school, people would talk. And i hate that bullshit. So what should i do?
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (29 December 2010):
Section 153 of the Criminal Code of Canada prohibits the sexual touching of a person under 18 by a person in three circumstances: if he or she is in a "position of trust or authority" towards the youth. The term "position of trust or authority" is not defined in the Code but the courts have ruled that parents, teachers, and medical professionals hold a position of trust or authority towards youth they care for or teach.While it is OK for you to have a relationship with her, it is illegal for her to touch you sexually (which could include kissing) for another two years. The best thing is to determine if she likes you, and then if she does, let her know that you'd like to have a relationship with her, but that because you don't want to get her into trouble, you must not do anything illegal, or better yet, tell her that you'd like to be close friends with her until you either turn 18, graduate of either of you leaves the school--if she's not your teacher you only have to be 16 to have sex, as per the Tackling Violent Crime Act of 2008.
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reader, oliviababes +, writes (11 October 2010):
 i'd ask her out, i did that and she said yes, and she was so hot!but don't tell anyone, trust me these symptoms mean she fancies you!
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reader, RoseKt +, writes (25 September 2010):
RoseKt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, i agree with dirtball that there are plenty of shy lesbians! But thanks for all your responses! :)
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 I've known plenty of shy lesbians.
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reader, Moonknight +, writes (24 September 2010):
 You probably are being paranoid, to assume 1 she is gay, 2 she's into you, 3 she is acting weird around you. From my experience gay/lesbians are not shy... and you do not come off as being shy to me either.
So yes you probably are paranoid.
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (24 September 2010):
 What he said.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 September 2010):
I wouldn't do anything until after you graduate. Any kind of relationship with a student is forbidden in the majority of schools out there.
I'd say she's interested but she knows what boundries she cannot cross and this is one of them.
After you graduate, and are no longer a student at that school, then I see no harm in pursuing this.
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