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male
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anonymous
writes:At my urging, my wife will sometimes make out with her female friend (nothing happens below the neck) in my presence as a way of revving up my engine. My wife needs a little coaxing but then seems to get into it. The visual effect for me is very erotic and we (my wife and I) always have good sex afterwards. I have a question for which my wife has never given me a straight answer. When a straight woman makes out with another woman (even if only to turn on her male partner), does she become sexually aroused? I am interested in answers from women who speak from experience. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Gross! And janniepeg raises a good point, probably the only reason women do it so often in porn is because it's a much less painful way to make cash. Women that do this in order to please their man have forgotten that there exists such a thing called "boundaries". You have allowed your significant other to violate your boundaries, by going this far to please him. Ask your man if he would ever kiss another guy for you? I bet I know what the answer is. A loud NO! Personally, I think that man kissing man or woman kissing woman is um.... disgusting, sorry have no other word for it. And I think that because I AM STRAIGHT. I've always wondered about men that like to see women do stuff to each other, if it's just a hidden way of expressing suppressed homosexuality. Whatever happened to pleasing your man by giving him a blowjob? Is that too old fashioned these days?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 It's a learned behavior. It will turn me on if it makes my man more passionate. People learn from porn that men get turned on by two sensual women touching each other. Part of why it turns men on because it's an extra something that women would do to please a man. It just seems like it's very common in porn that women have lesbian fantasies but in fact porn actresses know it's easier to make money that way and it's less painful than rough sex with more than one guy. So to answer your question, being a straight woman myself, kissing a woman does nothing to arouse me. The fact that it arouses you arouse us. If I get wet because I am thinking about the man, not the woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): As a straight female that has had a fair few kisses with women at the request of my boyfriend
I can say that it does turn me on, but i can't explain why, i would never do anything else with a female...
This may not be the same for all women, as we are all different! But i hope this has helped!
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