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How can you convince your girlfriend to give you oral?

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Question - (24 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Do most women like giving BJs? How can you convince your girlfriend to give them to you?

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A female reader, LustyLisa United States +, writes (24 September 2010):

Oral sex is a personal issue an individual preferances vary widely in both males and females. Have you given her oral sex? If so, does she enjoy it? I'm one of those women who isn't crazy about oral sex, receiving or giving. I don't do BJ's and oral for us is a foreplay activity only.

All you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel, get an understanding on her feelings and see if there are compromises that may work in your relationship. Don't be pushy coercive. If she is WILLING to work on this make sure you stay within her limits and boundaries ( for example if she may not want ejaculate in her mouth, she may not want you to touch or hold her head, she may not want you to thrust into her mounth, she may insist that you wash/shower, and let me add flavored lubricant has it's benefits!).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

Keep your penis clean and shave yourself there. Then make her wear your favorite lingerie and you wear what she finds the sexiest. Show her some good porn which would have sexy guys and girls doing oral... most probably she'll give you one after this.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (24 September 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntWhether it is possible to convince her to give you oral on what her reasons are for not giving it.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (24 September 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYou cant plain and simple. Every girl is different and some like it and some dont. If she is not comfortable with it then please dont keep going on to her about it because you will make her resent you. Maybe she has never done it before and is scared she wont satisfy you. Maybe sit her down and be honest and open with her, wear a condom and go through it step by step with her, if she really doesnt want to do it then let it go.

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