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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I have been going on and off for 3 years with a long distance relationship, at the beginning everything was sweet and nice even and we found ways to feel like we were face to face even though we were miles away. But fights happened and lots of misunderstandings and our lives got busier so we drifted apart since we had more stresses. Yet we still hope in the future to be with each other and try to get over the times we fought and disrespected each other since it has taken a toll on our hearts. But I dont know what I should do, because we both agree we are not in love with each other but that we still love and care of one another. My friends think that its just a vicious cycle and I am still around cause I am used to him but theres so many times that I am sad and crying and I feel hurt by his fighting and non-caring times but then he apologizes and come back into my life after days of ignoring my calls and messages.My question is: Should I wait and see what happens, if when we are face to face most of the time it will be better? or should I try to move on and force myself to get out and see other people even though it might ruin a possible thing with him in the future?
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reader, Ichiko  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 I have been through exactly the same thing as you have, My boyfriend and i loved each other, and would see each other almost everyday. But something happened and misunderstanding occured and now everytime i see him it hurts so much, but i still love him....
We decided to go on a break for a year and see other people, thats the only way we'd know if we were right for each other in the long term (Been dating for three years previous)
I can only to suggest to talk it through with him as every couple is different, good luck and i wish you all the best!
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