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female
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30-35,
*ofialoren
writes:To cut a long story short, I met my boyfriend he's 23 and I'm 19 end of last year. We were both exchange students and met in another country. We've been going out for seven months now. He's a lovely guy, perfect, I've met his parents everything. He was a bit shy at first, still is sometimes.He has a lot going for him (nice looking, rich, athletic) but has always been shy with women and from whatever he's told me he's not been too far with women- just kissing like me in the past. he told me he believes he can't do things with people unless he really likes them. I think similarly so its ok. We've done a lot but didn't sleep together.Anyway so we've not seen each other for a couple of months, we've been in our countries for the summer and are to meet soon. He's back at uni and somethings been bothering me.Whenever we skype a guy always calls him up, the same guy. My boyfriend and I talk for many hours at a time and without fail that guy calls up to ask how he his or that he is doing this or whatever.Now that guy and he spent hours a days (whole day) revising together, and both are involved in long distance relationships.My boyfriend quotes the guy a lot- like T said this or that. And really is it normal for a guy to call up another one so much?Am I justified in feeling there is something strange? Could my boyfriend be bisxual? Would that explain his general sexual inexperience as well?
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (18 September 2010):
 i think your over reacting about this. perhaps your getting slightly jealous about the attention your boyfriend gets from this male! perhaps they feel like brothers and like to talk alot perhaps they grew up together. if they are in both long distance relationships what are you worried about! although your a couple you still need space and friends! and jealous is like a green eyed monster so becareful what you say about it! i would just relax ask him how close they are ie brothers or best friends forever type.. and if he says their close mates then thats that you know he will be apart of your life just like one of your best mates perhaps will be with him.. just because you are together doesnt mean he belongs to you in ever which way but loose he still needs his freedom to have friends, good luck all the best aphex
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