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anonymous
writes:hi i am a 28 year old divorced women with a 6 year old son, i left my husband 3 years ago and have since been in a relationship with another women for 2 years, a had been with other women before her but this is my first gay relationship, she is 23 and this is her fisrt and only proper relationship. she has slept with a coule guys before me.when we met we became best friends and then it turned into more, for the first 6 months it was just supposed to be a bit of fun as she was scared then as feelings grew i got serious well i think. she has been living with me for a year and i love her so much.none of her family know only a few friends but not really talked about, since she has started new job things have changed she feels like this might not be what she wants, mainly i think cause she struggles to make new friends because she does not feel comfortable talking about her relationship. she would always refer to me as her friend, which does hurt. she ended a few weeks ago but we have decided to give it another go, i am so scared of losing her i really want to make things work i know i make her happy. i know i should prob just let her go but i just cant. how can i make things better?
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reader, dersita  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 You said you have a six year old son. How does he feel about it? Does he even KNOW about it?
Not trying to be bad but he IS your son. I'm sure he'd want a proper family. If that woman isnt interested in the relationship then leave her. Dont push on or you'll end up doing something really bad and psychotic!
As you said: this is your first GAY relationship.
Try to get back on with men. Give your son a proper family.
*smiles*
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