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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Here is the story i have been in this LDR for past 10 months . we both love each other but i used to fight alot cause of my insecurities and used to clingy, pouty and even snooped around and over these months we had small break ups and used to get back in a day. but i always said i will change but didnt i would say changed abit and went back to old ways and 2 weeks back i started to pick fight and he called it quits and said this will only work if we solve our problems which is too much of fight and we decided to be friends and i told him i will change and was on NC for almost a week and in that time i did change abit. and after i came back we started talking and said he was shocked for me 2 take this huge step of not being on for days and said i did good. but today the day he was drunk he flirted with some one and she sent him nude pictures . i flipped out saying how could he do that and thought he cheated on me but technically we are not in relationship and then i got scared and wanted to get back asap but he said i havent changed but acting like i have changed and he will be only able to say that in overtime. he said he told me about that incident cause he wanted to be honest. now i dont know why he told me and does it mean he still loves me ? however i love him and i want to prove i can change and he said i can prove being friends and i dont know how do i prove to him . i dont know if he is stalling time or he actually wants things to work out. a little perspective would be helpful.ty
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do wanna change and i cant walk away from relationship. and he is being honest even though we are not in relationship. doesnt it mean he loves me?
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