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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HeyDo you think that girls sometimes go and look for other male contact to try and figure out if what they have right now is what they really want?We dated for roughly 4+ years and we stared out very young. We where so in love that we would drink poison if something should happen to the ONE. And we have been through A LOT the last couple of years and I mean A LOT!Me and my ex recently took a "break". After the break she'd still text me like she use to and conversation was normal and a little after the break I went to her house and saw text messages from another guy!Now I'd gladly take a break because she needs one but I will really NEVER take a break if I knew the intention of getting with anther guy! Is this wrong? Should I grant her that space so she can bump her head and see that he is not all she thought he was and that shes way more happier with me? And if we manage to get back together do you think shell mess around like this again? I think both of us made the mistake of not carefully monitoring what we where missing in our relationship whether is Physical contact or making Love. But I do know now and I dont think ill ever let that happen again...But I have learned now and I probably wouldnt have learned this if it wasnt for this.So what do you think? Take her back? give her another chance?Thanks and Regards
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reader, petina1 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 It does sound like your girlfriend thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Taking a break is a good excuse to try other people out, then know that the safety net of 'you' is still there if it doesnt work out. Like second choice. While ever she knows you are waiting there for her it gives her the chance to try other things knowing that. If she thinks you may not come back to her then that might make her realize what she has in you.
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