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writes:just recently i am my girlfriend have been having problems. we meet in school and we are still schooling together. i love my girl friend but i got the feeling that she loves me more and she shows it more than do because i usually have more self control than her when it comes to public display of affections. shes had this theory that i dont love her enough and that i dont make sacrifices for her and she does for me . shes always telling me that i dont go the extra mile in other to make her happy. lately shes been so distant and not called at all in like two days but am always sure to maintain contact and i call her even if she doesn't.i admit she loves me more but i have not cheated on her and i dont know what to do to balance this.the thing is i dont actually feel bothered that she is not calling me that much and the more this continues i begin to doubt if i really care about her or not. i know she wants a guy that is crazily in love with her and can do anything for her but av had some bad experiences and i dont also want anything of the heart to cause problems for me especially now that am in my finals. pls what do i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Ashley0112358 +, writes (12 September 2010):
 "My GF claims that I don't love her as much as she loves me!"
That is just one of those crazy things people say, i think i love my gf more, but she thinks otherwise, its just one of those things you have to put up with.
Try to bring the romance back, kisses, massages, hugs in public, compliments, these are all little things that add up to big changes. Try to these as often as possible and she will notice it, its the best way to show affection.
go to the movies or for dinner, or just run her a bath with a candle or two, these things are all going the extra mile.
Good luck
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 First things first... do you see yourself having a future with this girl?
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