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writes:I'm not sure if my cousin fancies me or not. I know it would sort of be wrong if he did, since we're related, but i'm from the U.K and it is legal to go out with, and even marry a cousin , here. We were at a family party last night, and we danced together. While we were dancing, he said " have you got a man in your life ? " , and i said no, then he said " No ?! " , in what seemd like a surprised way. Later on, his mum said she thought i looked beautiful, and he todl her that he had said asked me if i had a man in my life earlier, and he told her that i had some good moves on the dancefloor !. He was also teasing me saying " she hasn't eaten her cupcakes yet " as i had some cupcakes that someone gave to me but i didnt want to eat them lol.I also wanted to ask him if i could add him on facebook, but i was too shy to ask. I already know that he has a facebook page, as i looked on there for him a while ago, and i checked again just now, and the photo he had on his page the first time i looked for him is still on there, so i'm not sure if that means he hasnt used his facebook page for a while, or if he just might not have changed his profile photo for a while. What do you think about this and do you think i should add him on facebook ?.I might see him again in a month too because another family member is having a party. We dont live close to each other though. he lives about 2 hours away.
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reader, Princess _008  +, writes (22 September 2010):
well i think you should wait for him to ask you out. if he really do fancy you, he'll look for an opportunity whereby he can ask you out. If he does not, then forget him. because this will mean he does not have any feelings for you girl. in order to prevent embarrassment in case he reject you, wait for him to take the first step.
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reader, rawr69  +, writes (17 September 2010):
Facebook really can change one into a stalker. Been there done that. I think that if you are gonna go there. I would think about the repercussions of what could happen. Scenario 1 is that you somehow convey to him you like him and he doesn't like you back. Awkward situation. Which could potentially be extremely embarrassing when you have family get togethers and when family members gossip. Scenario 2 you tell him, he likes you too, you are happy, you guys get it on. This would mean you would have to keep it secret or have it it the open. Keeping it secret would be bad, as this would mean your relationship probably couldn't go anywhere. In the open could be even worse. You would suffer serious judgement from EVERYONE. Even though it is legal, society seriously sticks their nose up at it and you would have to deal with so much prejudice. You would have to think about it so much. Imagine telling someone "Oh yeah, I had kids with my cousin". But add him on facebook. He wouldn't get anything weird from that even though you do like him. Cousins add each other all the time. He couldn't possibly read anything into it. I Like to add everyone I know. Hahaha. Good luck and make the right decisions that you feel are right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): Thanks for your reply. Do you think he fancies me, from what he said to me ?. I do like him and i'm hoping he will be at the next family party that's coming up in a month, although i might not know how to act around him.
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