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writes:I'm bi-curios and I love this guy who just treats me as his Big Brother, He still doesn't know that I have this feeling for him, what do I do? Please I need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK so i just want to add some other details.I'm 2 years older that him. The 2 of us get really close to each other, we even wrestle and tickle each other almost all the time. we like holding each others hand while walking and he doesn't care if other people see us holding hands. One time we almost kissed each other but we were disturbed by someone then the both of us blushed. When I'm doing something across the room he would always look at me and when I catch him looking at me he would look the other way but sometimes he would just stare at me for 5 seconds and I would notice his pupils dilate. Does he has feelings for me to? How and should I tell him that i'm in love with him?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Stupid question... but is he bi/gay or straight?
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reader, Ashley0112358  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Hi, im also bi-curious so might be able to answer this question.
The best advice i can give is to talk to him, and see if he feels the same way, if your worried about this ruining your friendship then take a while to think about whether its worth it.
You say he treats you like a big brother, is there an age gap between you? If so this may cause problems, both legally and personally. If he is younger than you (but legal in your country) and is quite mature then i suggest talking to him, if he is mature he may be able to respond to your feeling better.
Best of luck
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reader, LiveAnnLearn  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 You didn't reveal a lot of details so here are a few questions at the top of my head: You say he looks at you as his BIG brother, how much older are you? Is he gay/bi/bi-curious? Do you two ever flirt or is it a totally friendly relationship? Depending on the answers you have 2 options: tell him how you feel or not. If you choose the 1st one and he did look at you as a friend or even worse a brother all of this time, you risk losing him because he might freak out, BUT if he didn't who knows, maybe he even likes you as well. I'd suggest a good way to start is by finding out is he even attracted to guys in any way before you decide to make your next step, also is he attracted to someone else at the moment or maybe in love... Good luck;)
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