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writes:I just turned 40 this year and have never had an orgasim. Nope, not a virgin and have had two children but I don't want to go on without having ever had had one. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Thanks for the advice.We've experimented with everything even trying some BDSM,so our sex life is very exciting. I guess now I need to learn how to masturbate.wish me luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): I agree...start with finding your spots and work to give yourself an orgasm. Orgasms are 90% mental. Once you know what it feels like, mentally as well as physically, you will want it and it will come (pardon the pun) naturally, even with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Well first experience an orgasm from masturbation... once you know what that feels like you can start to learn how to have an orgasm while having sex. Do you masturbate? If not, you need to start learning how. Every woman should know how to do that. I think it is a rotten shame how women are made to feel ashamed of sex and of their bodies. It is really a sin and a crime against humanity that women are allowed in our culture to get your age and not know how an orgasm feels. But don't worry there is plenty of hope for you. Like I said, start by masturbating.
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reader, LOSTasYOU +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Well in order for you to have an orgasm your partner has to know your spot, and in order for your partner to know, you have to know. So this may sound a little silly and i hope its not inappropriate but maybe you should test,play with yourself. Discover what turns you on, what you like, how you like it and then explain to your partner. Secondly, you have to have good communication with your partner. Let eachother know what you want to be done, try things new, discover eachothers hotspot.
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (12 September 2010):
i would suggest to your partner that you want to make things more interesting. i had the same problem until my boyfriend and i started experimenting more with touching and not just sex. if he masterbates you at the same hes penatrating you its very effective and can be done during doggy style. if that doesnt work you can masterbate yourself while he penatrates you if he is lying on his side and is between your legs and your lying on your back you will probably have to lock your arms to give him some leverage while you use your free hand to pleasure yourself.
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