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writes:So..it's been a month. He's acting so different, I feel so useless just waiting for him to go online, but I don't talk to him. I really want to talk but I'm afraid to. He hinted me on about his feelings. it seemed like he was trying to tell me that he likes me...(IM NOT SURE), He was always the one who started all the conversations..(USED TO,)Is it just me or does he really like me? Am I just thinking too much? and now,,He's acting all strange and he's just "different"...His attitude changed too. We live super far away (11 hours flight),15 hours time difference, so..its hard. there was once when he said he was "useless"and he kept saying: "why am i sooooooooo useless...?!"he wasnt in a great mood that day. I tried to comfort him but i think i failed to... :'((((we used to get along really well, we talked for like 12 hours straight every day (for a month). he would go online everyday and we'll start skyping from morning to night,but when he moved back to the states, it was hard because of the stupid time difference = = I tried talking to him, but all he gives me is one word replies. we didn't video chat anymore, we can't communicate anymore, unlike before :'(is he trying to avoid me? is he trying it ignore me? Or is it because he's waiting for me to talk to him? or..did i do something wrong? did he take my words to seriously, and thought that every word i said had a deeper meaning to it..?He was online today...but i didnt dare to talk. I feel all bad now :'(( I don't know what to do. It's been like this for a month. Every night i would stay up late with my computer open just to see if he's gonna go online, but eventually i fall asleep and i don't get to see him online. I dreamed about him so many times; I thought I forgot him, but then i realized that I'm soo emotionally attached to him already; it feels hoooorrible. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Nobody on here can answer all your questions but him alone am afraid darling.
It sounds like maybe he has just giving up because he thinks you dont care, maybe there was wires crossed somewere and he thought you didnt feel the same for him this is not your fault though and am sure its nothing you said or done so dont be worrying, next time he is online tell him you miss his chats and tell him how you feel about him tell him you like him, yes the distance is very hard on both of you but with technology these days you can try and make arrangements to chat when both of you are free, good luck hunny.
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