A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I have an interesting situation here and it confuses me. I reconnected with a woman i grew up with, and we always had mutual feeling towards each other that never really came out to what we wanted. Ten years pass, then we meet again. We started off just on a platonic level, but then our true feelings came out. Here's the problem. Her baby daddy lives with her and she is falling for all of his game. He's 37, she's 27, and they have 2 kids together. One is 2 and the other is 3. She says that she doesnt love him and she is happier to have him as a friend, but yet she wants to stay because of the kids.She says she wants to give her kids a real home, and always says that its her baby daddy's dream to have a real home, but he has 4 other kids other than hers. She says she cares about me, and wants to be with me, yet the only problem she's had with him is dad as a provider. Now, he's working two jobs and she can't use that as an excuse anymore. I really care about her deeply, yet, i feel like im being played. Like she is trying to get the best of both of us. She says she is confused because she wants me, but the kids want dad. I don't mind the kids, i do mind baby daddy taking advantage of her, and her choice to stick with him only for the kids. That bothers me. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): I'm sorry I didnt explain myself better. She is not married to the man. He is living with her because he says he has nowhere else to go. She is confused because she wants to be with me, yet her baby daddy (father of her kids), is putting her on a guilt trip about her leaving him. She clealy is doing this because of the kids but doesnt seem to have the guts to let him go.
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