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He says he hates his ex, but he still talks and texts her!

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Question - (12 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid, ok so this guy that i like has been with his gf for 8 months and while they were going out, me and him would act like a couple(kissing, flirting, hugging, holding hands,etc.)I thought he would develop feelings for me that way, stupid idea i know. Anyways, he just broke up with his gf a week ago because "he couldnt handle her bs anymore". Then me and him were on the verge of going out. Just a few days ago he told me that he hates her, wants her out of his life, and pretty much was talking s**t about her. Turns out he still texts her and still keeps in touch. Of course im not mad about that, what i am mad about is the fact that he lies and cant be honest with me. How can i tell if he's just using me to have fun or to get over her? Should i confront him about it, tell him we should just be friends. Am i making a big deal? What do i do, what do i say ?? Plz help. Thank you ALOT !!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010):

I agree with OlderSister: he still has feelings for her. There is a fine line between love and hate.

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