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writes:Is a bit of nervousness in a guy unattractive to girls (better make that women)? If a guy is a bit nervous when he's talking, isn't it like you can just verbally run over him? Isn't the inability to stay solid/unbeaten kind of the definition of male unattractiveness (other than ugly looks or unhealthiness)?For me, I am relaxed like I'm confident, but when I'm conversing I feel a small amount of nervousness and it probably shows in my voice and mannerisms. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Not at all. As long as it is just a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Nervousness is fine. In fact, some people think it's pretty cute. It shows that you're anxious *because* of them (e.g. their opinion matters to you, therefore they matter to you!) HOWEVER what's extremely unattractive is apparent self consciousness, lack of confidence, and low self esteem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): I can't speak for all women of course, but I happen to find a touch of nervousness attractive. It's a real emotion, it's happening in front of your face and you can't deny it. It's honest, it's relentless at times. Seeing real emotion like that can change how a girl will think about you, yes, but not always for the worse.
I fell in love with the first guy that was nervous around me, because I knew he had to have a reason for feeling nervous, and that reason was because of how much he was in love with me. Going from meathead fake guys to THAT was a breath of fresh air in my opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): I think it depends on the woman, to me it wouldn't be unattractive, it would be kinda sweet, but don't bet on that being every woman's reaction.
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