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*arenna
writes:Last night my ex boyfriend called me, we've been apart for almost a month and we've been in touch and we still have feelings for each other but he has some past issues, so we cant be together until he solve that issues, but I dont understand him, last night he told me that he was looking in facebook, he wanted to see the pic of us, but honestly, the same night we broke up, I inmediatly deleted them, because seeing those pic it will only bring me more heartache!!and he told me that not seeing the pics, made him feel sad, I know that he won't understand how I felt after we broke up and when I deleted the pics and I don't expect him to understand but why does he was expecting to still see the pics??I still love him and I'll wait for him until my heart wants to, but I couldn't have the pics so available, it was a defense mechanism for my mind and my heartplease help me to understand just a little!!
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reader, carenna +, writes (13 September 2010):
carenna is verified as being by the original poster of the question Actually I do have all the pictures of us, in a usb, away from my computer jaja
I tried to explain to him that I deleted to keep me sane, because I thought that he didn't want to know anything about me after we broke up, I didn't even imagine that we would keep in touch and.. I don't know how to name our situation, but you're right, only time will tell and it wasn't fair for me!
I told him that I will send the pics over an email or burn a cd with all of it.
Thanks a lot for your advice, I really appreciate it!! =D
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 September 2010):
 You're broke up so of course you should delete those pictures. If you still had them up then you would still be hanging onto him. You don't know how long it will take for him to fix his issues or if you guys will get back together. It's not fair for you to put your life on hold for him. Do you still have the actual pictures that were taken? I would give those to him, if he wants to see pictures. But I would just tell him that seeing that causes you pain, because you guys are broke up and you don't know if it's possible to have a relationship. Only time will tell.
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