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anonymous
writes:To start out I should tell you my boyfriend and I are both college sophomores. Although I am not a virgin, he is. We both feel as though we want to wait until marriage to have sex...meaning for him to lose his virginity and me to have sex again. Most of our close mutual friends are sexually active and think that not having a physical relationship will make our relationship weak. Although we both have no problem and are not bothered by our friends comments, I sometimes worry they may be right. Does anyone have any advice about how to make our relationship stronger? And any fun ideas for things we can do for dates? Any help would be appreciated(: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010): Does he know you aren't a virgin?
You should show him how much you love him by sucking his dick, and then afterwards he can lick your clit.
What I am saying is you do not have to have sex to have a physical sexual element to your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): You have had sex with someone else before but this guy is still willing to wait? I would not.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (13 September 2010):
You both sound like you have thought this through and discussed it, and come to the decision that you both want to wait together. As such, I don't think that waiting will weaken your relationship. Relationships are built on many things, sex being only one of the aspects. To make your relationship stronger, just make sure you put the time and effort to spend time together, do fun things together, enjoy being with each other, be intimate and close (through cuddling, talking, etc).
Fun ideas for dates:
- rock climbing
- custom decorate your own plates/cups
- corn mazes are fun
- festivals that come to town
- just things that you haven't done together yet are fun to try. makes you feel like you are adventuring together, and makes you closer
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