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writes:I been with my ex four years. He have hurt me soo much pain but I still love him. He knows the fact that I love him and he take advantage of that. We have been broke up for 5 months and my feelings keeping getting stronger. I think about him every minute but if i go back i am going to hate myself. I dont think he loves me but i dont know how and why I can't move on. I feel I am stuck in a dark room and anybody cant hear me. Please help me on with my life
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Is this the first time that you guys have broken up or was this an on-again, off-again relationship?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (12 September 2010):
I don't think you have given yourself much time! you love him but he doesn't love you the same! so i would rather give it some more time rather then go back into a relatioship that is not there. you have come this far i think you are doing good! and yes it is hard but thats why we sometimes go back into bad relationships! so the pain will go away but thats what we think it doesn't go away does it. so i say this you might as well hurt without them then hurt with them and get over it. the ball is in your court keep it there.
Good Luck!
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 I know it's cleché, but everything gets better in time.. Try and distract yourself- take up a hobby, go out with friends, generally keep yourself busy and all will heal in time and you'll be glad that you didn't go back! Just imagine if you did go back to him, you'd be feeling just as bad as you are now for however long your with him AND after the break up.. You're so so so much better off dealing with it all now than having to go through it all again, just stay strong :)
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reader, jodieleigh  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 you can leave him when you if you really want to. its going to be horrible at first. but it will get better. spare yourself the pain and find someone who loves you for you
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