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Steps to having oral sex?

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Question - (12 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2010)
A male India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am a virgi nand don't want to lose it.But i plan to have oral sex with a girl...i want to make her feel special....can anybody please tell me the way or steps...actually i m a beginner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010):

Ashley0112358's advice is top on.

Being a lady I would also advise gently putting one or two fingers in there and massage her G-stop at the same time.

If you don't know where this is, then get her to lye on her back, make sure the palm of your hand is pointing upwards and massage the upper wall that you fingers tips should naturally lie against once in there.

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A male reader, Ashley0112358 United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2010):

Ashley0112358 agony auntThere are many ways.

There are just a few things to remember first:

*Relax

*make sure she is relaxed

*Dont dive straight into it (sorry for the pun)

*start of with kisses and slowly work your way to it.

*Give her a massage if you feel if will make you both more comfortable

Ok now the sexual bits:

check out http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/vulva.html

to find out where everything is.

Remember to go slow, the clitoris is what your aiming for and its a very sensitive part of the body.

Many women enjoy gentle strokes on the clit, labia minora and majora, the best advice you can recieve is to communicate.

Dont apply too much pressure and gently lick the clit and labia, try gently circling the clit, or even writing on it with your tongue.

Remember to occasionally ask if its feeling good, and you will soon find she is directing you, telling you what she likes and where.

If she starts moaning or arching her back continue what your doing, dont stop. Just cause she is enjoying it doenst mean you should go wild, just take it slow.

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