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*obie
writes:I want to thank all of those who answered my question and gave me some advise and tips. I post a fallow up on my situation and I really need some more advise. Please go to the posts on oct.20 my online name is hobbie and the post was..I didnt tell my online guy that I had a doughter............I really need some good help,I care so much about him and I want to work things out, but I want to be wise about it I want him to belive in me I need him to know that I'm a good person..my whole life I met so many evil people and its hard for me to trust some one..how can I convince him to listen and belive in me..he lives in different state and I dont want to be emailing and texting him I did it once and I want him to be alone and think with out any presure from me so please, please help me........
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Well im sure you learned from your mistake not to lie to someone he probably is just in shock at the moment so i think the best thing you can do now is give him sometime to get his head around it and hopefully he will contact you, the sad thing is he might decide to end this as he might not want to get involved with someone with a child, i think you need to talk to him one last time though and tell him that you are sorry that you didnt want to tell him about your daughter until you got to know him better. Tell him you are sorry for lying and that you really like him and dont want to lose him but that you wont contact him again and let him get his head around it and leave it to him to contact you, good luck.
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